The Ten of Wands is a card about feeling burdened and/or overextended.
Oft times we hold onto burdens we shouldn't be holding onto, like when we take on the sole responsibility of trying to make a relationship work. If this is the case here, you need to release that burden and go back to focusing on yourself.
Leave room for the other person to step up. And if they don't, you are already on the path to preserving yourself. Never feel like you have to twist yourself into knots to make love work.